My safety net has always been my Faith. Faith to me means putting all my trust in God. Knowing that he has a plan that is greater than I could ever imagine for myself. Not knowing what the end result will be but knowing that it will be good for me. Knowing that every experience, the ups and downs are all part of God’s plan for my life. Blindly taking steps with my head held high and not looking down or even flinching for a moment.     

My spiritual connection with God is one of the things I felt like I lost in my marriage. I was so focused on life that I was not paying attention to what God was trying to show me. I learned that anything that takes you away from or distracts you from the path God has chosen for you cannot be God centered. My spirituality has always been important me. However, it has not always been a priority for me to maintain. Often when I was going through my hardest time and struggling with decisions would be the only time I would turn to God. I was not letting him lead my footsteps. Instead, I would go my own way, make mistakes and then turn to him to pick up the pieces when things went terribly wrong. This is not the relationship I want to have with God. I don’t think it’s fair to go the opposite direction and ignore the warnings, signs, intuition and discernment he has given me when making decisions and only turn to him when I have no other choice. Now God has to be a part of every decision make from here going forward.         

I would challenge anyone who has a spiritual connection explore the role Faith can play in your life. You have to learn to be at peace with whatever challenges you face. Whatever happens in relationships and know that if God removes or places someone in your life it is for a reason and be thankful for the lesson.  Try your hardest to reduce fear of the unknown. Don’t worry about what is coming. Just know that God has a plan for everyone and that he loves you.      

In my faith-filled life I am very confidant that I have nothing to worry about when it comes to obtaining my happily-ever-after. I know that it is right around the corner because God has prepared me for this very moment. I know that my husband is coming and God has been preparing him for me so when he meets me he will know that I am the one. He will feel it deep down in his soul and I will feel it as well. I souls will meet before we have a chance to speak. I will trust the decisions that I have made are in align with God’s plan for my life. I will always seek his advice before making any move and will trust the moves that he makes on my behalf.     

Faith has given me peace with whatever challenges I face and confidence that if God removes or places someone in my life it is for a reason. It has made me very confident that I have nothing to worry about when it comes to obtaining my happily-ever-after. I know that it is right around the corner because God has prepared me for this very moment. My life is filled with love, joy, happiness and gratitude because of unshakable Faith.     

Not taking anything away from any of my exes, but I don’t feel like I have met my soulmate yet. I want to be faithful that God is preparing the man that he see’s as my soulmate at the same time he is preparing me. I have faith that he will lead that man to me at the right time and we will grown together spiritually.