Not to sound cliche, but I’m not mad at my single hood situation. I’ve had a hard time getting to this point where I can be happy being single but I am. Don’t get me wrong. I’m a hopeless romantic and I love being in a happy relationship. I love companionship, the smell and the touch of a man. Kisses and strong arms and someone whispering sweet nothings in my ear. I can’t wait to be in love again. However, at the same time I want to be selfish right now and focus on the things that make me happy.
When I’m in a relationship I give my all. I am traditional in the since that I want my man to feel like a King. I tend to pour everything into a relationship to the point I would not have enough left for me. I met my husband when we were 20 years old in College. I decided at that moment that I wanted him to by my man and everything was all about him. He even told me he was not looking for anything serious. I made it my mission to become his woman. I put his needs before my own. Even when I would catch him cheating I would fight to keep our relationship together.  He begun to expect this from me and I began to resent him for the life that I created for us.
There are some benefits to being single. I have the time I need to figure out what. makes me happy. Define my purpose.

If you are still looking for that one person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror.

Any single people out there feel me? What are your thoughts? Like, comment and share.  I want to hear from you.